Your happiness matters.
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Whatever you're facing, feeling, or wanting, you have great potential to find fulfillment through self-awareness, self-empowerment, and self-healing. When you help and empower yourself in conscious ways, you help the world.
- Dexter and Alessandrina
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My experience with Dexter and Alessandrina has been amazing. I initially contacted them for support & assistance with both personal and professional goals. To my highest satisfaction, I've found the coaching, support, and clarity I was looking for - and more! As a result of our work together, my business is going great, and I feel confident and attuned with myself personally and with others. I feel that through sessions with Alessandrina, who I've worked with extensively, that I have been able to swiftly address places where previously I was 'stuck' or in fear. Her approach is very accessible. She is able to clearly discern and communicate where breakthroughs or improvements can be made. And, she communicates and provides the tools for the client to make these improvements and life-changes with ease. I am very grateful, and happy to have met and worked with Alessandrina and Dexter, and recommend their services 100%.
-David, Chapel Hill, NC
'Life changing! Every time, you come a little closer to your true self... Amazing! Everybody should try it!'
'...The past life regression sessions are amazing, completely different than what I expected and thought they were going to be. Life changing, for sure. I think we don't realize how much we hang on to things of our past that we think mean nothing, but when they come to light, they mean everything. And they explain a lot of why we do things in our lives continuously. So for me, just doing two sessions has been amazing, and I can't wait to do more. And that's how I feel, every week, I get excited to do another one because every week is different and every time you do it is different, and you come a little closer to your true self and you're able to let go and experience, and it's amazing. And definitely, definitely, everybody should try it! '
- Carolina, Owner at SobeLift, Miami Beach, FL
'I'm so grateful and I highly recommend it' -
'...I was motivated to come and do the training because I have been on a healing journey for two and a half years now and I wanted to dive more into it, and I am so grateful that I did... Diving deeper into my healing journey through the Reiki energy healing course offered by Alessandrina and Dexter has allowed me to become aware of beliefs of mine and thoughts that I have regularly and understand myself at a deeper level and make me want to help others do the same too. I highly recommend it!...'
-Allison S., Soul Cycle Instructor and Health Coach, Miami
This couple is the real deal. They are in this world to genuinely help people and they know what they are doing both intellectually and energetically. Accessible at any level and at any price range: they have free meditations available online, affordable workshops and events, and reasonably priced one on one sessions. They are gifted with the ability to guide anyone, as a unique individual, towards being more truly themselves, living freely without the heavy burdens of fear, doubt, and limitations. After only my first workshop with them I felt an immense shift in the way I interact with myself and with the world. I would highly recommend working with these beautiful souls in any and all capacity. It is a true blessing- one I will forever be grateful for. Thank you to you both!
-Marla, Ft Lauderdale, FL
I am so grateful for my experience with these two! Both of them made me feel at home and at ease from the moment I walked in to even after I left when Alessandrina went out of her way to check-in with me and send me a website related to something we chatted about in our session. Alessandrina was so knowledgeable, patient, open-minded, and inspiring. To spend 6 hours with her barely even felt like an hour.
-Allison, Miami, FL
I attended a workshop with Dexter and Alessandrina and felt immediately welcomed by their genuine approach. I later received a private session. They exude wisdom and love. They are wonderful guides who enrich people with tools for the growth they are seeking. They practice with great humility. I recommend them for all those who are seeking to connect with themselves and who are hungry to explore their journey deeper.
-Linet, Miami, FL
Dexter and Alessandrina are a lovely couple who work together and have created a serene and sacred space in which to share their many talents to help others live happier, more spiritual and peaceful lives. I attended a past-life regression workshop with them and look forward to attending others. As soon as I walked in the door to their home, I knew I was in a special place. They both exude what they teach.
-Myriam, Key Biscayne, FL
'I highly recommend everybody trying it out and doing some sessions... Totally worth it!"
‘I have done a little bit of the life coaching with Alessandrina. And I love it, personally. I think that everybody should have somebody that they can talk to about their problems, their outside life, and she was super helpful and guiding me and telling me directions and of new perspectives on things that we have in life and that we don’t see, which is really good. And she’s really helped me in my relationship, which is very important, because I also work with my future husband. And for me, that was really something wanted to work with. And it’s amazing, and I love it, and I highly recommend everybody trying it out and doing some sessions, which is totally worth it.’
- Carolina, Miami Beach, FL
Hello, You might not know me, as of yet. My name is Erik. I'm writing a review of Dexter and Alessandrina because I feel compelled to share what I have experienced this past week attending 2 sessions with them, held at their gracious home in North Miami Beach. When I arrived w a friend that I had traveled with for last Saturday's Abundance Workshop I could not have been more nervous about where my friend and I were going, Who are these people, what will we experience there.? Is this an 'Infomercial' of some sort to lure me and my friends in....? After we parked and walked to the front door Alessandrina answered the door w a smile and gentleness that melted away all of my preconceptions and misconceptions. We were greeted warmly and casually with the respect usually reserved for old friends. After attending last Saturday's event I decided to return this Saturday's to attend the weekly Mindfulness meeting and to stay for the Reiki Share hour that followed. Again the energy in their home was low-keyed and delightful, seemingly welcoming us all like a Big Hug from an old friend. Love, Respect, Supreme Humility flowed with no one asking for this to occur. Their delightful energy enveloped me and I immediately relaxed. The late morning Mindfulness followed by Reiki was a terrific way to relax, and to become centered. I'll be going again... Many Thanks, Dex and Alessandrina.
-Erik, Fort Lauderdale, FL
I have worked with both Alessandrina and Dexter via the phone for the last 4 months and have chosen to travel twice over to see them in person and work together. I have worked with countless therapists and life coaches but I have never progressed as deeply or honestly as I have with them. I wish I had not waited until I was in crisis to contact them however their support doubtless made me want to live again and for their support kindness wisdom and relentless enthusiasm for my growth I am eternally grateful. Their resources are plentiful and if you do the work, it works!
-Cassy, Hitchin', United Kingdom
What can I say about these two amazing people and their outstanding work ?! Simply, absolutely amazing. I have participated in workshops and also worked with one on one calls, and every time I feel improvements in my life, my career, my relationship and in myself. Their energy is so calming and welcoming, I felt free to express myself, my worries, concerns, fears, and I enjoy every single second working with them. It's very important to share with someone how you feel and view things from another perspective, and they help me do just that. Highly recommended to any and every one. Thank you for everything!
-Carolina, New York, NY
I'm happy to recommend Dexter and Alessandrina as both of them have helped me gain clarity of my past karmic patterns through both family and relationships with others. Sometimes, it may take a major change in one's life to find the right resources in order for a person to move and progress through life in the way they deserve. Also, sometimes helping others before oneself may be an aid but you need to first help yourself in order to be fully happy with everyone around you! Thank you both!! You saved my soul.
-Christina, New York, NY
If you are even thinking about getting a session you should do it. Dexter's ability to work backwards through an issue to get to the root of the "problem" is brilliant and very helpful. Without suggesting anything he seems to ask the right questions to lead you to healing yourself, versus saying "do this, don't do this. " I also appreciate that he really cares to heal you, you can feel his intent and it never feels like business. Many times he's reached out to me unexpected with a nice text or a link to something helpful or something pertaining to our session that he may have thought of after the fact. I strongly recommend!
-Nic, San Francisco, CA
I don't know if there is anyone in this universe that can help bring a sense of calm and peace, like Alessandrina and Dexter. For whatever your reasons are, they will help you find the right path to enlighten your way. They are perfection.
-Karen, Miami, FL
I must admit I was nervous to try PLR hypnosis but my interest and curiosity, as well as complete trust in Dexter, allowed me to have a life-altering experience. I wanted to be at peace and cut chords with what no longer served me. Dexter was the perfect guide; he brought my soul and mind on a journey to the past and allowed me to see and connect with many memories. I feel so much calmer and serene about the things that caused me so much pain and anxiety. I was able to release so much of the tension and negative feelings associated with just the thought of my present situation. As always, I want to thank you, Dexter, for making me feel safe and cared for. I can't wait to try another session in the near future. Much love and blessings to you.
-Magali, Ontario, Canada
Alessandrina's knowledge of meditation, how to get to the root of your fear, how to clear your fear, and how to live your life from intention so you experience the joy you seek is second to none. She has a way of explaining concepts that make it easy to understand and to integrate. Her unique style is that she blends meditation with coaching. With her support, you will get a deeper understanding of how to meditate and how to use the techniques on your own so you can clear yourself when you need to. She is also very good and helping you navigate through your emotions. You also get to take home material to read and exercises to deepen your learning.
-Sophie, Toronto, Canada
As most of you friends here know, last year was pretty challenging to my health, with impaired mobility, then major surgery, and then a long and often painful recovery and rehab process. I felt very supported throughout the struggle, and I thank all of you who cheered me on along the way! One person who has been so very supportive is my dear friend and healing coach Alessandrina. Her expert guidance has led me through some pretty dark places, into the light.
- Lana, Miami Beach, FL
Truly one of a kind and transformational spiritual counseling. I also participated in a past life regression and it was eye opening and healing for me. So worth it.
-Marcia, Miami, FL
Thank you to both of you from the bottom of my heart!! I couldn't believe when I got off the phone, how much time you'd spent with me. I could go on and on about how much different this was than counseling for me. You have changed my life and therefore my family's life, forever!
-Kortni, United States
Thank you so much. You told me I had the power to make these changes and that if I started hitting the ping pong ball differently I could get change. I must say you were right. Thanks to you, things have changed! I was praying to God for help like this and I truly believe you two are the answers to my prayers. God Bless you for the amazing work that you do.
-Montien, Seattle, WA
I wanted to thank Dexter and Alessandrina for a breakthrough session that was honestly insightful beyond expectations. My husband and I are looking forward to this healing journey more than ever… We are so grateful to have found this site.
Thank you Dexter and Alessandrina Dorer for being so much help in this…My heart now feels happier and I feel able to move forward and learn how to release my own fears and be a better person for me and my husband. We are starting to communicate more. Starting to laugh more and be a couple again. It is possible. Just listen to what these two amazing people have to teach you and try. It’ll happen when you’re ready for it to.
You always provide divinely inspired, Godly and amazing advice Alessandrina Dorer. It comes every time I’m at my whit’s end… I’m beginning to get refocused and exhaling, again. Thank you, master and friend.
Last Friday, I had the opportunity to speak on the phone with Alessandrina for a one-on-one coaching session. My husband and I are days away from the 1 year anniversary of his affair revelation and that has stirred up a LOT of fears within me and also painful triggers. Alessandrina listened to my concerns and fears and gave me some very interesting insight on our situation I had not been able to see before. Not only that, but she genuinely seemed to care. Before speaking to her, I was consumed with fear, pain, and feelings of immense sadness. After our discussion and also after me trying out some techniques she suggested, I am doing MUCH MUCH Better and am more prepared than I was before to walk through these upcoming days with a more positive outlook and with less fear. Thank you Alessandrina Dorer for being such a wonderful coach, helping me to defeat my fear, and for being a friend who truly cares.
Thank you Alessandrina for your and Dexter’s help. You guys are amazing, and you have already enriched my life in ways I can’t put into words. Thank you for ‘holding my hand’!
Thank you so much. I hope all who hear can grow from the wisdom brought about in this call. It really was ordained by God Himself from my perspective, for my personal growth here on Earth.
I had an incredible session today with Dexter Dorer and Alessandrina Dorer. I felt pressure, disappointments, and the despair I’d been experiencing leave me as I explained my circumstances in my marriage. These two individuals are gifted. Their 1 on 1 technique is genuine. Today was totally unlike anything I’ve encountered and I’m encouraged! I sincerely look forward to putting the advice and suggestions given to me today to use. Thank you both and God blessings to you continually in the work you share to help me and others resolve their marital issues!
I would recommend scheduling a 1-1 coaching session with Alessandrina Dorer or Dexter Dorer. I learned more from them during our 15 minute phone call than anything I’ve read or any advice I’ve been given in the last 6 months. Good luck to you
Thank you so much for taking time to help me in my marriage. What you all are doing is extraordinary and a Gift from God.
These people have invested a lot of their time, and energy to find the things that actually are proven to work in the challenges of our generation; Cutting edge therapy. Thank you Alessandrina Dorer and Dexter Dorer and all the people who are behind the scene for your hearts to help. We appreciate it!
This group has absolutely changed my life! I’ve been implementing the information into my relationship, especially the parts on codependency. I just noticed another incident today where I could apply this awareness. So often, I fall right into the ‘pit of doom’ when my husband is upset with me or blaming me. He needs my help, not my ‘gasoline to the fire’. Thank you again to everyone here for the support!! Dexter Dorer and Alessandrina Dorer you rock!!!!!
If you really want to remain in the relationship, I highly encourage you to get involved with Dexter and Alessandrina on here. Make time for one of the sessions being offered. They will challenge you so much and bring you to a place where you can see things for what they are, including the revealing of the part that you may be playing in this all and the root causes for why you both are doing what you are doing. You will see how freeing the unveiling (the session) can be and will want to grow more. There is hope for your relationship and it can be whatever you want it to be I guarantee.”
Every time I read or watch something you two, Dexter Dorer and Alessandrina Dorer are trying to help us all with, it makes more and more sense. I’m truly so happy that you accepted me into this group. I will apply this to rebuilding my marriage and finding happiness in myself and my marriage again. I will be more aware of my parts and whether or not they apply to these life goals.
Alessandrina and I offer spiritual counseling and life coaching to people over the phone. During these sessions we help clients with whatever they're looking for help with, however they're looking to be helped. This can include helping them with a particular goal, such as a relationship goal, career goal, or spiritual goal, or helping them with how they feel, the thoughts they have, and any patterns they'd like to address. A session can also include getting more deeply in touch with who they are, with the divine, and with unconditionally loving spirit. A spiritual counseling session can help alleviate emotional pain, bring greater clarity of oneself, the world and others, increase wisdom and discernment, produce new feelings of joy and empowerment, and deepen one's experiences and results in life. You can click on the following link to learn more about our Life Coaching and Spiritual Counseling sessions.
Conscious Relationship Coaching
If you're interested in resolving relationship issues, cultivating a more conscious relationship with someone in your life, or attracting your soulmate, we can help you with that via our Spiritual Counseling over the telephone or in person. We have helped clients get back together after being on the brink of divorce, we have helped improve relationship dynamics while working with just one person, and we have helped people with relationship blockages attract an ideal partner. Generally speaking, when helping people experience more conscious relationship dynamics, we'll help them identify and release negative patterns and emotions, gain greater clarity over their relationship dynamic and it's moving parts, and spiritually connect to the deeper meaning of how and why this is unfolding in their life. This work can offer deeply meaningful, enriching experiences of feeling better, personal growth, spiritual growth, greater self-sovereignty, self-love, and self-empowerment. Click here for more on conscious relationship coaching.
Past Life Regression Hypnosis
Alessandrina and I are certified in Past Life Regression Hypnosis with Dr. Brian Weiss - a renowned psychiatrist and global leader in Past Life Regression Hypnosis. A Past Life Regression session can help you access your past lives to understand who you were, the experiences you had, and the relationships you had in prior lifetimes. These sessions are often used to alleviate symptoms such as physical and emotional pain, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and more. They can also be used to get more deeply in touch with our soul and each of our divine nature. You can click on the following link to learn more about our Past Life Regression Hypnosis.
In addition to Spiritual Counseling and Past Life Regression, Alessandrina and I also offer Reiki healing sessions in person in Miami including distance Reiki for remote clients. Reiki is a divine energy that is channeled from Divine Source down through the crown chakra, through the heart chakra, and out the palm chakras to the client. Reiki, like Spiritual Counseling and Past Life Regression, can help reduce physical and emotional pain, resolve trauma and deep rooted issues, reduce stress and anxiety, and promote spiritual healing and overall wellbeing.
Mindfulness & Meditation
My wife and I are experts in mindfulness and meditation and these practices are integrated into everything we do. Defining mindfulness as conscious self awareness, our spiritual counseling sessions lead to increased self awareness for all our clients. We speak about mindfulness and meditation at different events in Miami, and teach mindfulness and meditation techniques to clients during Spiritual Counseling sessions. We've also created a free website, www.theepicself.com, with over 450 different guided meditations - each for a specific goal.
We host events around Miami and Fort Lauderdale centered around a variety of spiritual healing topics. For example, we offer events on Past Life Regression Therapy where we offer group regressions so people can experience their own past lives and healing. We also offer events on self awareness, conscious relationships, mindfulness and meditation, and energy healing. Click here to learn more about our spiritual events.
Weekly Events and Retreats
My wife and I regularly post new recordings to youtube. These are usually clips from events or specific questions that we choose to answer online in video format for others to benefit from. You can subscribe to our youtube channel, and you can also send us any questions that you would like us to consider answering in video format. We love hearing from you!
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Values that guide our work
Developing and refining an accurate model of ourselves as we progress through life to understand who we are and where we are. This includes mapping our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual parts and processes (conscious and subconscious) including our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, communications, and behaviors.
Being in the present moment, observing what's happening inside of us, outside of us, and in our relationships, while seeing the implications, meaning, and cause and effect nature of our decisions. Mindfulness can also include focusing on consistently making choices based upon our intentions, and learning from our experiences constantly.
Realizing our ability to self-heal, and embracing this ability by consciously working via self-knowledge, meditation, mantra, and other techniques to help ourselves transcend obstacles, illness, and other unwanted results.
Realizing that nobody can "make" us feel anything, releasing all codependency, and becoming the central, decision making authority in our lives based on our own personal intentions and goals beyond the influence of family, friends, or society so that we can find true personal happiness.
Reaching an internal state where we see all things as equal. This is a state of consistent inner-peace regardless of what's going on around us or the actions, behaviors and decisions of others.
Feeling and expressing a wise, healing, understanding, God-aligned, and self-less love with all beings and things (including ourselves) without any fear, judgment, expectation, exception, or limitation.
Remaining open-minded, open-hearted, grateful and self-less in your process of learning without self-judgment or expectation, without pride or ego, and constantly giving all credit and thanks to God, Divine Source, or The Universe.
Deconstructing the ego by releasing any and all fears, beliefs, expectations, and judgments while growing more and more purely aligned, connected, and resonant with unconditional love, our Soul, Spirit, and God.
Releasing our internal limitations including our disempowering perspectives and realizing our tremendous capacity to achieve our goals via the application of our God-given freewill, intention, and creativity.
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