"It's okay to be okay with whatever happens in your life"
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Thank you to both of you from the bottom of my heart!! I couldn't believe when I got off the phone, how much time you'd spent with me. I could go on and on about how much different this was than counseling for me. You have changed my life and therefore my family's life, forever!
Thank you so much. You told me I had the power to make these changes and that if I started hitting the ping pong ball differently I could get change. I must say you were right. Thanks to you, things have changed! I was praying to God for help like this and I truly believe you two are the answers to my prayers. God Bless you for the amazing you work do.
I wanted to thank Dexter and Alessandrina for a breakthrough session that was honestly insightful beyond expectations. My husband and I are looking forward to this healing journey more than ever… We are so grateful to have found this site.
Thank you Dexter and Alessandrina Dorer for being so much help in this…My heart now feels happier and I feel able to move forward and learn how to release my own fears and be a better person for me and my husband. We are starting to communicate more. Starting to laugh more and be a couple again. It is possible. Just listen to what these two amazing people have to teach you and try. It’ll happen when you’re ready for it to.
You always provide divinely inspired, Godly and amazing advice Alessandrina Dorer. It comes every time I’m at my whit’s end… I’m beginning to get refocused and exhaling, again. Thank you, master and friend.
Last Friday, I had the opportunity to speak on the phone with Alessandrina for a one-on-one coaching session. My husband and I are days away from the 1 year anniversary of his affair revelation and that has stirred up a LOT of fears within me and also painful triggers. Alessandrina listened to my concerns and fears and gave me some very interesting insight on our situation I had not been able to see before. Not only that, but she genuinely seemed to care. Before speaking to her, I was consumed with fear, pain, and feelings of immense sadness. After our discussion and also after me trying out some techniques she suggested, I am doing MUCH MUCH Better and am more prepared than I was before to walk through these upcoming days with a more positive outlook and with less fear. Thank you Alessandrina Dorer for being such a wonderful coach, helping me to defeat my fear, and for being a friend who truly cares.
Thank you Alessandrina for your and Dexter’s help. You guys are amazing, and you have already enriched my life in ways I can’t put into words. Thank you for ‘holding my hand’!
As most of you friends here know, last year was pretty challenging to my health, with impaired mobility, then major surgery, and then a long and often painful recovery and rehab process. I felt very supported throughout the struggle, and I thank all of you who cheered me on along the way! One person who has been so very supportive is my dear friend and healing coach Alessandrina. Her expert guidance has led me through some pretty dark places, into the light.
Thank you so much. I hope all who hear can grow from the wisdom brought about in this call. It really was ordained by God Himself from my perspective, for my personal growth here on Earth.
I had an incredible session today with Dexter Dorer and Alessandrina Dorer. I felt pressure, disappointments, and the despair I’d been experiencing leave me as I explained my circumstances in my marriage. These two individuals are gifted. Their 1 on 1 technique is genuine. Today was totally unlike anything I’ve encountered and I’m encouraged! I sincerely look forward to putting the advice and suggestions given to me today to use. Thank you both and God blessings to you continually in the work you share to help me and others resolve their marital issues!
I would recommend scheduling a 1-1 coaching session with Alessandrina Dorer or Dexter Dorer. I learned more from them during our 15 minute phone call than anything I’ve read or any advice I’ve been given in the last 6 months. Good luck to you
Thank you so much for taking time to help me in my marriage. What you all are doing is extraordinary and a Gift from God.
These people have invested a lot of their time, and energy to find the things that actually are proven to work in the challenges of our generation; Cutting edge therapy. Thank you Alessandrina Dorer and Dexter Dorer and all the people who are behind the scene for your hearts to help. We appreciate it!
This group has absolutely changed my life! I’ve been implementing the information into my relationship, especially the parts on codependency. I just noticed another incident today where I could apply this awareness. So often, I fall right into the ‘pit of doom’ when my husband is upset with me or blaming me. He needs my help, not my ‘gasoline to the fire’. Thank you again to everyone here for the support!! Dexter Dorer and Alessandrina Dorer you rock!!!!!
If you really want to remain in the relationship, I highly encourage you to get involved with Dexter and Alessandrina on here. Make time for one of the sessions being offered. They will challenge you so much and bring you to a place where you can see things for what they are, including the revealing of the part that you may be playing in this all and the root causes for why you both are doing what you are doing. You will see how freeing the unveiling (the session) can be and will want to grow more. There is hope for your relationship and it can be whatever you want it to be I guarantee.”
Every time I read or watch something you two, Dexter Dorer and Alessandrina Dorer are trying to help us all with, it makes more and more sense. I’m truly so happy that you accepted me into this group. I will apply this to rebuilding my marriage and finding happiness in myself and my marriage again. I will be more aware of my parts and whether or not they apply to these life goals.
Holistic counseling
Dexter and Alessandrina have trained methodically and meticulously, with great discipline, to become the one-of-a-kind, transformational, and leading-edge facilitators that they are. Clients frequently report that working with them is more worthwhile, effective, enlightening, and healing than working with any life coach, therapist, counselor, psychologist, or psychiatrist they have worked with in the past. Frequently, Dexter and Alessandrina help clients achieve breakthroughs that they never thought were possible or had not been able to achieve either on their own or with professional help. Extraordinary results often times come from extraordinary approaches. Dexter and Alessandrina graduated with business degrees from top universities. They have since invested a vast amount of energy carefully designing their own spiritual, personal, and professional development curriculum that includes a tremendous depth and diversity of healing modalities and teachers. Their holistic counseling services are based purely on their personal studies, spiritual intuition, and energy healing capabilities. We believe their extraordinary, non-traditional training background is one of the strengths that allows them to help clients achieve extraordinary, non-traditional results in many areas of their lives. Please see below for the different holistic counseling services they provide. These life coaching sessions are provided over the phone and are 100% confidential.
You can make great progress transcending your feelings of depression once you find the information and tools that will empower you to release the low energy, negative emotion, low motivation, and other negative feelings that can make depression such an exhausting experience. Alessandrina and I have acquired the understandings, tools, and techniques required to empower someone to transcend their feelings of depression in a holistic and self-empowered fashion. Feelings of depression don't have to be a long-lasting experience or life long struggle. With conscious facilitation, someone who is depressed can swiftly be guided to work through the perspectives, negative emotions, tendencies, and negative energy patterns that are keeping the depressed feelings in place. Please click the following link to learn more about our holistic depression counseling.
An addiction specialist is able to quickly identify where a person is in their process of addiction and help them work through the key emotions, feelings, beliefs, and fears that are keeping the addiction in place. They are also able to hold a space of non-judgment that allows the client to feel able to express the emotions that they need to work through in order to transcend their addiction. My wife and I work very hard to offer the highest quality facilitation possible and integrate a wide variety of healing modalities in our work helping individuals transcend addiction. Clients frequently tell us that they make more progress in one session than all of their previous counseling and therapy work combined. To learn more about transcending addiction, and our process, please visit our addiction specialist page.
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Self-Awareness
Seeing the implications, meaning, and cause and effect nature of our mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual processes (conscious and subconscious) including our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, and fears.
Mindfulness
Focusing on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's thoughts, emotions, feelings, prior decisions, current life circumstances, and any judgments, fears, beliefs, or expectations in regards to those.
Self-Healing
Permanently resolving recurring negative thoughts, emotions, and habits while understanding and releasing unresolved pain, trauma, and recorded limitations such as fears and beliefs from the past.
Self-Sovereignty
Realizing that nobody can "make" us feel anything, releasing all codependency, and becoming the central, decision making authority in our lives based on our own personal intentions and goals beyond the influence of family, friends, or society so that we can find true personal happiness.
Equanimity
Reaching an internal state of constant, eternal, and unconditional love, inner-peace, acceptance, and gratitude regardless of the actions of others and external events beyond our control.
Unconditional Love
Feeling and expressing a wise, healing, understanding, God-aligned, and self-less love with all beings and things (including ourselves) without any fear, judgment, expectation, exception, or limitation.
Humility
Remaining open-minded, open-hearted, grateful and self-less in your process of learning without self-judgment or expectation, without pride or ego, and constantly giving all credit and thanks to God.
Spirituality
Deconstructing the ego by releasing any and all fears, beliefs, expectations, and judgments while becoming more deeply in touch with our oneness with God and all beings via a greater connection to our eternal soul and spirit.
Self-Empowerment
Releasing our internal limitations including our disempowering perspectives and realizing our tremendous capacity to achieve our goals via the application of our own freewill and self-sustaining motivation.
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