Dexter and Alessandrina | Spiritual Healing

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Spiritual Counseling

Your happiness and fulfillment matter.

You can learn more about our private sessions directly from us over a short phone call where we can answer any questions you may have. Alternatively, you can read more about our process below. If you'd like to learn more by speaking to us, please call us at 305.606.5941 (Dexter) or 786.308.9552 (Alessandrina) or submit the form by clicking the contact us button below and we'll contact you shortly.

Optional goals for spiritual counseling

  • Learn to manage your thoughts and emotions and release the negative ones
  • Understand the invisible patterns and blockages in your life and relationships
  • Transcend those patterns to achieve more of your goals
  • Enhance your relationships
  • Understand why things have happened, and the actions of those you're in relationships with
  • Understand why you feel the way you feel
  • Become more consciously wise, discerning, and intentional
  • Feel more joy, inner-peace, empowerment, self-sovereignty, equanimity, and success
  • Connect to your soul's intention for this lifetime and become a conscious navigator of your spiritual path
  • Become aware of and realize the non-optimal subconscious, invisible tendencies that we and those around us tend to operate from and transcend these

The essence of our spiritual counseling

Life is like a rock tumbler. In this metaphor, each one of us is a rock. When we get in the rock tumbler, we're rough, sharp, and edgy. As the rock tumbler begins to spin, we start bumping into each other over and over. As this happens, we react to the pain and we judge ourselves and others, feel negative emotions, stress, fear, conflict and suffering.

That said, the rock tumbler is also a beautiful place. In between impacts, sometimes, we’re able to focus on and embrace this beauty - the love, grace, joy, and beauty of our true nature, environment, relationships, and purpose.  As we see and feel this beauty more and more, we begin to want more of it. We begin to stop hating the pain and suffering of the collisions and start wanting to learn from them in an empowered way - to consciously evolve so that we can reduce our suffering and that of others and to make this life into something more than it used to be. Gradually, as we introspect and begin to understand the why, how, when, where, and what that is the true cause of our suffering, we begin to transcend our karma, our pain, our suffering, we raise our vibration, and we raise the vibration of the planet. As we become conscious creators and intentional in our process of spiritual evolution and healing, we begin to wear away our rough edges.

Eventually, when we come out of the rock tumbler, we're no longer the jagged and sharp rocks that we went in as. As a result of our spiritual growth, wisdom, and intelligence, we’re now smooth, round, and whole. In this state, we've learned how to love ourselves and others completely, we've released all our fears, we've transcended all of our karma and conflict, and we've reached a point of consistent inner-peace, unconditional love, and non-judgment. We’ve reached a point of spiritual consciousness - of self-sovereignty, equanimity, and enlightenment.

This is the big picture view of what we aim to help with via our spiritual counseling process.

We all get to choose how much energy we spend introspecting, learning, and growing spiritually. You might meet some people who appear to prefer to spend their lives bumping into others, feeling pain, blaming it on external circumstances, and not really looking within to gain understanding. A poet named Khalil Gibran said (paraphrased), “the pain you feel is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding”. If we choose to, with the proper facilitation, we can all learn how to become more spiritual beings who learn, grow, and evolve from their experiences, as opposed to continue to suffer. This way, we can all experience greater inner-peace, joy, empowerment, success, love, and all the things we truly deserve. This future is available for anyone who chooses it, and who has access to the facilitation required for this type of spiritual growth to occur. The more people who choose this for themselves (the more leaders we have in this regard), the more spiritual healing, consciousness, and wellness that will spread across our planet and to future generations. We can all affect this positive change by starting with ourselves and accepting help in our process.

Why 1-on-1 facilitation is so important today

Our world today is a stressful place. Today’s social, political, and economic environment is quite complex, competitive, judgmental, fear-driven, manipulative, and money, status, and power oriented. Advancements in technology and the rise of social media are creating an unprecedented pace of change and even more complexity. With almost half of marriages ending in divorce - relationships are feeling this pressure. With the sheer number of thoughts and emotions (positive and negative) an individual might feel in a given day - individuals are feeling this pressure. Today's levels of internal conflict, external conflict, stress, fatigue, burn out, addiction, and suicide attempts show that people are feeling overwhelmed with today’s rock tumbling process.

Ironically, it is this level of stress and overwhelm that is creating a tipping point. In this tipping point, people rich and poor are feeling enough suffering in their lives to start to question their old beliefs and to value new things such as meditation to try to find more inner-peace, joy, and better relationships in their lives. Unfortunately, meditation, yoga, qi gong, massage, or therapy alone is not enough. There is vast amount of spiritual knowledge and practice that is not readily available in the world. In fact, this knowledge is not accessible to individuals without the appropriate channels of facilitation. Meaning it must be tailored to each and every individual based on their unique situation, experiences, preconceptions, and goals in a way that only a 1-1 process of spiritual guidance can achieve.  A group process can’t achieve that in the comprehensive and uniquely tailored manner that is required for best results to occur. Nor can a book. My wife and I provide this facilitation via our spiritual phone counseling sessions. The benefits of facilitation have positive ripple effects across all areas of our clients' lives, including their entire future, and the futures of those they're in relationship with. Below, we go into more detail about the process.

Guiding principles of our work

Spiritual counseling varies from provider to provider. Some teach according to a specific religion or healing modality. Others integrate a more holistic view of spirituality and the divine, integrating information from many different cultures and healing modalities, and also include energy healing and psychic work. The spiritual coach you choose, their personal level of spiritual development, their integrity, their knowledge base, and their skill as a facilitator all will significantly influence your quality of experience.

The help we provide is non-denominational (meaning it's not based on a particular religion) and it's rather unique compared to most counseling or life coaching experiences out there. Clients  frequently tell us that one session with us is more effective than all their prior therapy or counseling sessions (although our work is only spiritual in nature, and not meant to replace any type of medical or therapeutic help). You could describe our sessions as a mix of spiritual guidance, teaching, healing, life coaching, meditation, energy work, and empowerment. That said, these are just words and words are not experiences. Like anything, the only way to truly get a feel for it is to try it. That’s why we price our services by the minute ($2.50/minute - not including packages which offer discounts). You can get a taste of it without spending any more than you want to. After a few minutes, most people can decide if our services are for them, and, of course, they can stop at anytime. We don’t require you to buy a certain amount of sessions. You’re in charge of how often and how long we speak for, as well as what we talk about and how we help you.

How we strive to facilitate from a neutral, client-centric approach

We intentionally integrate this non-controlling, responsive, client-centric approach into everything we do - especially the facilitation we provide during private spiritual phone counseling sessions. We call it facilitation because it’s really not about us, our beliefs, or our preconceptions. In fact, we strive to release and operate beyond any such aspects of ourselves so we can be fully present with you, so that we can cleanly (in a neutral, non-biased way) and accurately understand any communications we receive from you, your guides, and spirit, and so that we can offer you what you're looking for, how you want it, and when you want it.

For anyone to do this, they must operate beyond their personal belief system, judgments, attachments, aversions, what they believe is right and wrong, pride, ego, subconscious strategies, and fear. These ego dynamics create limitation and bias on the quality of facilitation. Like a bent gear trying to spin inside of an engine, a facilitator operating from subconscious ego dynamics and bias will create distortions and imbalance in the process of helping someone. You may have experienced this when receiving advice from a well-meaning family member or friend who was clearly biased by what they strongly felt was right and wrong or good and bad  in your situation (or maybe they immediately took your side and weren't able to be neutral). You may have also seen this when a counselor “takes sides” on an issue or with a person, tries to tell a client what they “should do” or “have to do”, or gets non-optimally emotionally involved or attached to an outcome in the process of facilitation. When this occurs, the consciousness of the facilitator is diminished, and they are less likely to operate as the unconditionally loving, non-biased sounding board focused completely on your healing and attainment of goals.

Why a neutral, client centric approach is essential

It can be rare for someone to open up vulnerably to receive guidance on their life’s most important issues like their state of mind, deep thoughts and emotions, habits, relationships, marriage, and imbalances. That’s why it’s so valuable that when they do finally reach out for help, that they are met by a facilitator who has practiced the self awareness, intention, and discipline of being the truest mirror and most wise and unbiased sounding board they can be for their clients as well as devoted to operating from unconditional love and alignment with spirit.

Values we optionally facilitate by

In addition to helping clients with whatever they want help with, our work is also guided by helping each client attain and experience greater inner-peace, joy, consciousness, wisdom, self-sovereignty, relationships, and unconditional-love - if that’s what they want, of course. We perceive that these values and experiences are of great benefit to everyone who wants them - especially at this time in the spiritual development of our species and world.

Tailoring sessions to each unique client

We also strive to serve each individual client in a unique way. Meaning, we don’t speak to any 2 people in the same way. Over time, we’ve gained the capacity to assess where our clients are at in their process, and cater specifically to who they are and where they are in every way we help. We do this over the phone by intuitively picking up on their energy. We perceive that this 1-1 approach that’s specific to each person (rather than a one size fits all approach) is necessary for deep healing and empowerment to occur.

Letting the client steer the session

Possibly the most important aspect of our facilitation process is our respect for our client and their free will. We do not steer our calls or sessions with clients. The client is in the drivers seat with both hands on the steering wheel. We sit in the passengers seat, and aim to help with what they want, when they want, and how they want. We are glad to make suggestions and recommendations, that said, we perceive that it is the client's own process of free will choice that will lead to their greatest healing, insight, awareness, awakening, enlightenment, empowerment, and self sovereignty. There is nothing more important than that to us.

Offering missing keys and puzzle pieces

That does not mean that sessions with us are like therapy sessions where the client is simply guided to express their emotions and the client does all the talking. While we definitely gently facilitate our clients to express their emotions, thoughts, and perspectives, we also understand that there are more pieces of the puzzle that can be of great help to them. In conversations, we typically weave in and out with clients, offering them the missing keys and puzzle pieces that can allow them to attain new levels of awareness, understanding, and consciousness over patterns and dynamics present in their lives. This consciousness allows them to then master the pattern, issue, or limitation they’re experiencing and transcend it permanently. The clarity gained from this experience is wisdom producing and liberating and allows clients to achieve transformational shifts in their relationships and life - including those "Aha!" moments - where things click.

How we have and continue to work to become the purest facilitators can be

For years, our work days have involved highly focused, disciplined spiritual practice for 3 to 6 hours a day in addition to our actual “work”. Through this discipline, our karma, and the help of sage masters that we’ve been blessed to encounter and learn deeply from, we have attained healing, consciousness, and models of learning, understanding, and operating that are capable of empowering individuals to make great progress transcending any mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, relationship, family, or career problem, issue, limitation, or blockage while accelerating towards their goals. To read about our credentials, you can visit the about us page on our website.

Experiences that our clients have

Because of this work and learning, we are able to see our client's situation from a variety of vantage points and help them identify the fastest and most preferred route to where they want to go. We're also able to foresee issues that they might not have been able to see coming, or even recognized existed (but which were acting as a burden and weight in their lives). As a result, our clients are able to enjoy

  • enlightening and revitalizing "Aha!" moments
  • rapid, complete, foundational shifts in their personal development
  • deeper, new, more positive experiences and relationship interactions in their lives.

In addition to helping clients with whatever they want help with, our work is also guided by helping each client attain and experience greater inner-peace, joy, consciousness, wisdom, self-sovereignty, relationships, and unconditional-love - if that’s what they want, of course. We perceive that these values and experiences are of great benefit to everyone who wants them - especially at this time in the spiritual development of our species and world.

We also strive to serve each individual client in a unique way. Meaning, we don’t speak to any 2 people in the same way. Over time, we’ve gained the capacity to assess where our clients are at in their process, and cater specifically to who they are and where they are in every way we help. We do this over the phone by intuitively picking up on their energy. We perceive that this 1-1 approach that’s specific to each person (rather than a one size fits all approach) is necessary for deep healing and empowerment to occur.

Possibly the most important aspect of our facilitation process is our respect for our client and their free will. We do not steer our calls or sessions with clients. The client is in the drivers seat with both hands on the steering wheel. We sit in the passengers seat, and aim to help with what they want, when they want, and how they want. We are glad to make suggestions and recommendations, that said, we perceive that it is the client's own process of free will choice that will lead to their greatest healing, insight, awareness, awakening, enlightenment, empowerment, and self sovereignty. There is nothing more important than that to us.

That does not mean that sessions with us are like therapy sessions where the client is simply guided to express their emotions and the client does all the talking. While we definitely gently facilitate our clients to express their emotions, thoughts, and perspectives, we also understand that there are more pieces of the puzzle that can be of great help to them. In conversations, we typically weave in and out with clients, offering them the missing keys and puzzle pieces that can allow them to attain new levels of awareness, understanding, and consciousness over patterns and dynamics present in their lives. This consciousness allows them to then master the pattern, issue, or limitation they’re experiencing and transcend it permanently. The clarity gained from this experience is wisdom producing and liberating and allows clients to achieve transformational shifts in their relationships and life - including those "Aha!" moments - where things click.

Feedback we get

Clients often describe feeling much better from this process of transcendental and spiritual healing, learning, and evolution. They describe that it has a profound effect on all aspects of their life and relationship. They also describe that it gives life a new meaning and that they feel inspired to know that these things exist. Another piece of feedback we hear often is people saying things to the effect of: "I feel like you're saying things that I've always known but have never been able to put together", or, "what you're saying is exactly what I've been needing to hear". We perceive this feedback reflects that their soul has been intuitively guiding them to the information we share and is deeply resonant with our communications. Truly, our soul, spirit guides, and other 'helpers' are always helping us find the insights that hold the key to our growth, transcendence of suffering, healing, and goals. Another piece of feedback we hear is, "Oh my gosh! I have never seen it that way. It makes so much more sense now!". We are frequently giving our clients enlightening new models of understanding themselves, their thoughts, emotions, relationships, and patterns in their life. Another peace of feedback we hear is, "I'm feeling so good and clear and back to a place of trust and comfortable and confident. Talking with you is so clear and helpful". These examples of feedback are all real feedback we have received from clients whether paraphrased, or word for word.

My wife and I do this work because we've experienced firsthand the valuable benefits of it in our own lives and continue to apply it and refine it every day. If you would like spiritual help with something in your life, whether that be a relationship, a mental or emotional state, or some type of change or conflict that is difficult for you, please contact us to schedule a short call where we can get to know each other, answer any questions you may have, and schedule your first appointment if you'd like. We can also offer you distance or in person Reiki and Past Life Regression.

How a session with Dexter or Alessandrina works

Every session is different and unique to the client and what they would like help with. That said, below, we'll offer you an idea of how a session might unfold.

In a private session with me or my wife, you might begin by expressing what you'd like help with, any specific ways in which you’d like to receive that help, and all the details, events, and perspectives that you feel are relevant to your situation. We may ask you some follow up questions to uncover useful information, then we'll discuss what your options are, what you can likely achieve in your situation, and how that can best be achieved according to your goals, priorities, and highest and best good. We'll also offer spiritual insight, intuitive, and education about the dynamics we see governing whatever situation you're in, so you can transcend it in the ways that you'd like.

  • We can discuss your different perspectives about the situation and identify any limitations or blind spots, as well as opportunities for new understandings, within those perspectives.
  • We can give you tools to work through any negative emotions, blockages, negative thoughts, or conflict you or a someone involved in the situation might be experiencing.
  • We can help you understand ways in which you can change the situation, and ways in which you can make peace with aspects of the situation that are beyond your control.
  • We can help you shine light on unseen dynamics and patterns - emotional, mental, and behavioral loops - that you may be caught up in, so you can become empowered to step out of it and consciously choose for yourself what you'd like to achieve while gaining clarity and insight into the conditioned and limiting subconscious dynamics our generation and species is currently operating within.
  • We can also help you understand new ways to communicate and behave that can help bring about the positive results that you seek.

Through this work, you can gain new awareness and understanding of yourself and others, release unwanted fears, beliefs, emotions, thoughts, and memories that may have been creating pain, obscuration, or limitations in your situation (some of which you may not have been aware of), and you'll also gain new capacity to constructively navigate the situations you’ve been facing and achieve your goals.

In these ways, through spiritual counseling sessions over the phone, we can empower you to have deeply meaningful, positive, spiritual life experiences of transcending obstacles, going beyond your perceived limitations, and attaining greater awareness, enlightenment, and consciousness in your life.

Spiritual Phone Counseling Session

We work with clients from all over the world by telephone, although we do work with some clients who really want the face to face interaction in person or by Skype. That said, we have found that people make great progress over the phone. There are many benefits to over the phone sessions which many people don't realize. Working over the phone allows for greater focus on the information being communicated as opposed to distracting visual input, a greater sense of comfort for clients who get to work from the privacy of their personal space, a sense of anonymity that allows clients to feel more comfortable discussing vulnerable or difficult topics, and easier logistics for tight schedules, to name a few. In phone conversations, we are able to tune into our client's energy and help them with their goals through new perspectives, understandings, healing energy, tools, techniques, and the clearing of internal and external blockages. This process leads to greater joy, fulfillment, self-awareness, wisdom, and positive, constructive results.

Pricing

We offer 2 pricing and payment options:

  1. Pay as you go
  2. Package

Pay as you go

When you pay as you go, the price of a session is based on it's length. Our rate for 'pay as you go' clients is $2.50/minute ($150/hour). We don't limit sessions to any certain amount of time and let the customer decide how long they want the session to be.  Sometimes someone might want a short session, other times a long one - depending on what they're experiencing. For these reasons we allow clients to choose, on each call, when they're satisfied.

For payment, we typically input our client's credit card information beforehand into a secure online payment processor called Stripe. Stripe stores your information in an encrypted fashion - we don't personally store your credit card information. After a session, we'll charge the credit card depending on the session length. We don't require a deposit for you to schedule a session.

Package

We offer 2 packages which require payment in advance. An 8 hour package for $1,000 (effective rate of $125/hour), and a 16 hour package for $1,600 (effective rate of $100/hour). Similar to the 'pay as you go' option, when you purchase a package you decide when and how long we speak for. After each call, we'll send you a receipt showing how long the session was and how many minutes you have left.

Please contact us if you have any questions. Below, we'll summarize what we can help with in our private sessions.

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