How often do you feel like you don’t know, or can’t decide, whether to say or do something or not?
Sometimes this feeling of not knowing, and the indecisiveness that it creates, can lead us to freeze and remain in inaction at important times in our lives.
In those moments, we’re not fully trusting – within ourselves – that we can make the best decisions that will lead to the most desired results.
This lack of certainty, or knowing, can keep us stuck for hours, days, and sometimes years, in non optimal situations, relationships, conditions, or disempowered states.
Often times, the fear of failing or making a mistake drives this inherently limited and limiting mode of operation.
And it’s not until we release this fear of failing or making a mistake, and realize that this fear only exists within our own mind – where it was first created – that we can move forward and feel comfortable making wise and discerning decisions and embracing the results of our decisions.
What we’ve collectively agreed to label as failures or mistakes are actually a fundamental step in the process of learning through experience and understanding and assessing the influence of our actions on others.
In addition to releasing and transcending the fear of failing or making a mistake, coming to a decision that we feel good about has everything to do with internal congruence.
Internal congruence happens when we understand and reconcile the various parts of ourselves – our child parts – that operate individually and often not in accord with one another so that we can work as ‘one.’
For instance, we can have a part of ourselves that really wants to be in a great relationship while many other child parts of ourselves fear being in one for fear of losing it, or of not being deserving or worthy of it, or fear the anticipated life changes that would occur as a result, etc.
Those are the parts that say ‘I don’t know…’
I don’t know if I’m safe, I don’t know how this will unfold, I don’t know if I’ll get hurt, I don’t know if…
The ‘I don’t knows’ are just fear talking. They’re not really true, and yet, they can feel very real and scary to our emotion and our child parts.
Deep down, you always know. Your soul always knows what brings about deep happiness, love, connection, abundance, and anything else you want and choose to experience in this lifetime.
It’s only the inner child that fears the uncertainty of the unknown, and continuously projects negative outcomes onto new experiences.
Working with those child parts, understanding and healing them, can lead to great personal freedom and thus freedom of action and speech.
In addition to working with those child parts and achieving internal congruence of your thoughts, desires, emotions, and beliefs, it’s useful to develop your intuition and inner guidance.
Whether you learn it through meditation, or by developing your psychic abilities – which we all have – in any other way you choose, you can be sure that as you do, your feelings of self-doubt and fear of uncertainty will greatly diminish, and maybe even disappear (if you apply yourself to your psychic development.)
One way of developing your psychic abilities is by learning how to access your Akashic Records and communicating with your spirit guides and other ascended and enlightened beings.
This coming Saturday, December 22nd, from 10.30 am – 12.30 pm, we’ll be hosting our last workshop of 2018, which will focus on developing your psychic abilities by accessing the Akashic Records.
If you’re interested in developing your psychic abilities and increasing self-confidence and a sense of inner knowing in your life that makes decision-making easier, then consider joining us at this workshop, or working with us one on one to start developing your psychic powers.
To register for this workshop, you can click here: https://goo.gl/uh8qtx
For more information about the Akashic Records, please visit: https://www.dexterandalessandrina.com/certified-akashic-record-consultations-and-readings/
You can also text or call us at 786-308-9552 or respond directly to this email. We’d be happy to answer any questions that you have about how we can best support you in developing your intuition and psychic abilities.
Wishing you all the best for this Holiday Season,
Alessandrina & Dexter