Dexter and Alessandrina

1. Change must occur at the level of the Subconscious (mind) This last lesson in the Family Constellations is short and also one of the most important lessons in your training. Without practicing the insights and shifts in perspectives that your client has gained through your facilitation, the changes may not last or be anchored…

Approaches to the Resolution of an Identification with a Family Member In today’s lesson, we will focus on the various approaches we can apply to support resolving an identification with a family member – not parents – with a particularly difficult fate and therefore resolving seemingly unresolvable triggers, pain, and other patterns that don’t appear…

Approaches to the Resolution of the Rejection of a Parent In today’s lesson, we will focus on the various approaches that can be applied to support resolving the rejection of a parent – mom, dad, or both – and therefore resolving the tendency to: (1) be overly critical of ourselves without realizing that we are,…

Approaches to the Resolution of the Merging with a Parent In today’s lesson, we will focus on the various approaches we can apply to support resolving the merging with a parent – mom, dad, or both – and therefore resolving the tendency to (1) be overly empathetic, (2) operate from a lack of optimal boundaries,…

Approaches to the Resolution of a Break in the Bond In today’s lesson, we will focus on the various approaches we can apply to support resolving a break in the bond with mother and therefore strengthening the relationship with mother and our own feminine energy at the same time. As a short reminder, the healing…

After identifying the core theme, the next step is to resolve the core traumas that have lead to the core theme you’re choosing to focus on first. Instead of focusing on each trauma individually, it’s more helpful and effective to work at a more global level and to focus on the core theme itself (not…

The 4 Unconscious Core Themes When identifying a core trauma and its degree of influence on a person’s life, there are four core themes* that the trauma can point to and that can be worked with: Break in the bond (with mother) Merging with a parent Rejection of a parent Identification with a family member…

3.1. Mapping the Core Traumas using the Genogram Now that you’ve gathered all of the preliminary information about your client, their early childhood, and their family history, you’re ready to create a genogram* for your client. A genogram is the visual representation of all of the core traumas and people who form part of the…

2.1. Gathering Information Now that you’ve gained a deeper understanding of: (1) who is part of the family system and (2) all of the different sources where any trauma or pattern may originate from in the family system, the next step is to gather information about your client and their family history.  This information gathering…

1.1. The family mind A family is very much like a small herd.  The premise of a herd being to organize people tribally to collaborate and operate in synchronous and harmonious ways in order to survive. The survival strategies applied within the context of a herd and tribalism also operate within family dynamics and organization.…

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